Frustrations with religion

Religion is a wonderful thing; absolutely essential to mankind. It is also a source of pain and destruction. One need look no further than the crusades and september 11 for proof. The damage, however, is not limited to catastrophic events.

I have been religious, orthdox even. I know what it's like for convictions to rule your life, and to be absolutely certain those beliefs are true. It is very powerful.

I was always urged to be tolerant of others' beliefs, while standing up for my own. But how is this accomplished? I always thoguht it meant that I could believe and worship as I saw fit, while allowing others to do the same. I have since determined that this not enough. It may seem obvious that it is necessary to consider whether you behavior will hurt another, however in my experience, this is idea is often overlooked. One area where this is only too common, is the family.


I think it's a shame when religion, which often proclaims the sacredness of the family, causes the collapse of families. If your beliefs vary from those of your family, you probably know what I'm talking about. No one likes to be told their beliefs are incorrect. No one likes to be criticized for having different ideas. No one wants to be in an environment where they feel scrutinized, pressured, or rejected. And yet, this is so often the case when contrasting beliefs meet under one roof. This kind of behavior only drives people away.

I realize that concern for the salvation of those close to you is often the cause of divisive behavior. But can't we all just have an open mind and realize that we're all doing the best we can, and will all be ok?

Do you really want to sacrfice family relations now, in the hope of saving a family member later?

It seems to me that the sacrifice of family has little chance of saving anyone.

Just some thoughts.

It's good to not judge others. It is better to accept others as they are. It is best to treasure others for who they are.